Bob Lam (林盛斌) is well-known as “renowned matchmaker” and manages to pair 8 to 10 couples such as Queenie Chu (朱慧敏) and her cardiologist Jason Chan (陳良貴), Sammi Cheung (張秀文) and her finance whiz fiancée, Billy Wong (王大權), geomancer Clement Chan (陳定幫) and his wife successfully for the past 8 to 10 years. Lately, he was invited to Sharon Chan’s (陳敏之) YouTube Channel as guest and lamented it was difficult to be a matchmaker.
Subsequently, Bob explained achieving 80% success came from hard work and could not arrange in a big group: “Women in thirties or forties usually have character flaws if they remain single. (What flaws?) Fickle-minded. For example: they do not mind driving any vehicles but discriminate it if it fails to meet their expectations.”
Bob pointed single women in thirties or forties would be unreasonable if they had quite high expectations: “Both parties complain about each other. Look, I am trying my best to help you and the success is not guaranteed. Yes, he is smelly but will take a shower. You can tell him to take shower frequently and there is improvements gradually. I understand eye contact is very important and you might find him pleasant looking, after interacting for a long time.”
Finally, Bob disclosed his next target would be TV Queen Nancy Wu (胡定欣): “I must ensure she will succeed. (She is a good, filial and beautiful woman.) She is independent and does not rely on guys. (She is career-minded.) Some guys ask me if she is fierce and I feel it is because of her eyes and thick eyebrows. Guys might be frightened when she stares at them. Of course, I know Nancy’s expectations and eye contact and communication are essential. I will work hard. Nancy, please wait patiently.”